Okay... i have really strong feelings for a guy at school...i mean I really like him... but I don't know how to really tell him... i wrote him a poem and he never told me what he thought of it or anything...and I draw him pictures like everyday...him and I are good friends but I don't know him all that well... and I just don't know how to tell him how I feel... anyone have any suggestions of how I can tell him?... it would be a lot of help and I would greatly appreciate it... thank you!
Oh my.. stop sending him all those things!
You're coming on too strong I think. His lack of response tells me that he's not quite on the same loop you are, and if he was, he may be backing off because you are flooding him with to much to quickly.
I know you have a lot of wonderful, warm, euphoric feelings for this person, but releasing all upon him like this is not the ay to express it. I know it's real hard NOT to do, but you must try.
I truly don't know why we react that way, but when a woman comes at us full bore like a bull in a china shop we shut right down. Most of us do anyway..
Give him some time to absorb everything. I hate to say it, but he may not feel the way you do. He may only think of you as a friend. You run a great risk of being hurt! :(
On the other hand....he may, indeed, feel as you do, but may not know how to respond to being inundated with all your emotions. This is a learning time for him...and you too.
Have you ever heard of people that should channel their anger?
Well...this is no different really. Your emotion is love....and it can come flooding and be overwhelming like anger can. So...try and channel it in the right way. Be gentle.....and try and figure out when the right times are to show it. I know....easier said than done. But try.....talk to him. Spend time with him. Be around him. Don't overdo it.....plant the seeds, and hang around and nurture them so they can blossom into a nice, wonderful love for you, and he. :)
Good luck to you...I hope it all works out for you!