Seriously, can it work out in the end-given a situation where each person comes from a completely different background. And don't answer with all the PC garbage. What's the truth here?
I'll tell you what, you want a straight up answer? I'll give you one! all PC crap aside. i have been all over this planet and seen some pretty awesome things and dated some very foreign women. in the end i have learned that there is two things that make this a little more difficult than dating some one of your own class and ethnicity. 1) parents- they make life difficult on every level of this because they are usually stuck in a oneminded track of how things ought to be. usually because that's how they were brought up. but even that's a poor excuse for their often tired and outdated principles. most times they just have a cankering of racial bigotry in their heads just like everyone else. they usually make things twice as difficult on their daughter/son as what things already are and in the end the child will usually claim allegiance to them and their wishes. it snot fair and you cant really do much about it. this is usually the biggest reason for "intermixed" relationships to fail. 2) each other- you to individuals are in most cases born of two completely different worlds. in each of these worlds there are certain rules and traditions that are generally expected to be followed without question (parents usually play a role in this also). often times you two individuals get these rules and traditions crossed or confused and guess what? problems occur! what's worse, is most times you blame each other for not understanding the other or you tell each other that the other refuses to listen or learn. the fact is, both times it all depends on the want or need to make it work. it can and often times does work out, but not without a whole lot of headache and elbow grease. you want to take this person on, good, but make damn well sure they want to take you on. there is a such thing as "slumming it", and you will find people out there that know they are going to end up with a person of their own race and class but are interested in playing with something a little different for a while. more often than not, and don't take this personal, but it is usually the female that gets this idea. guys don't usually particular care too much about and too tell you the truth, the most bigoted and hard headed people i have ever met were mothers. they can play hell on their children if they don't approve of them spending their lives with some white boy, or this black girl of yours, blah,blah,blah..its hard man, you just got to have a pair and go for it in the end if its what you want. sometimes you cant control the outcome, but you can work to make the outcome better than it would be if you just left it for what it is on ts own. that's the truth in it from how i see things. everybody is different, that's how i look at things too. nothing ever exactly works out too plan. there will always be a glitch or hitch somewhere, just make it work for you and your other instead of getting stuck on it. if your in that relationship than you should both know that it isn't interracial, its interpersonal. you two, together, or you two falling apart. that's the best i can explain it to you.