We met roughly 2 months ago online, started talking, hit it off. Would talk for hours everyday telling one another how much we loved one another. After about a month we decided it was time for us to meet one another. I spent a few days there, where we got to know eachother even more, really had a great time. We have plans to move in together, but the time apart is very tough on me. When I leave, there is a void in my heart and a longing to talk to her. Sometimes when I don't hear from her, even if it's only for a few hours I get depressed and wonder if she really does love me. Some evenings she will go out and we won't even get to talk that day, and if we do only for very little. On one hand I think well she has her own life, im not there. On the other I wonder if she feels the same way about me, how she can just go out have a great time when I am feeling so miserable. I know this may sound selfish but it is how I feel. I love this girl with all my heart, and truly feel she is the one
Your situation is very similar to what I am in. My b/f and I met online, talked for 3 weeks, then met. We had the most unbelievable weekend together!! We now have been living together 5 months, but he works out of state for 2 to 3 weeks at a time. Hopefully I can help with that I know.
The void in your heart when you aren't talking to her is because all you two have right now, is talking. You can't see each other every day so that's what you cling to. Makes perfect sense, I felt the same way then.
Although she isn't calling you as often as you'd like, what do you two have to talk about, that you haven't talked about in the last 2 months? Those hour long phone calls don't last forever because seriously, what else is there to talk about? My b/f and I decided a call in the morning and a call in the evening would be the best way to handle that. We could wish each other good morning and tell each other have a good day, but we'd play catch up at night. We always make sure to tell each other even the little things that happen throughout our day because we both feel like we too are experiencing things even when we can't be together.
We do have separate lives too. When he is home, we are together 100% but when we are apart, I go out with my girlfriends and he goes out with his work crew. Don't think for a minute I am not thinking of him when I am out. He feels the same because many times, he calls me when he is out with the guys. My point is, you can't just sit at home and mope, wondering what the other is doing. You need to live too. Have fun, do hobbies, go out with your buddies. Keep your mind busy until you can be with her again.
If it's meant to be, it will happen. Don't rush or pressure her and don't be clingy and needy. You have to trust her. If you don't, you will lose her for sure.