There are many, but remember to true hotlines are for profit since they work with local clinics to get you to become a patient. you can find a local group to discuss you problems. I run a group for runaways and troubled youth.
I Also inform them that they have to be cautious about what is said and to whom. for legally, any group or hotline must inform the police or medical expert if it is a serious issue. That became law after a group in Oregon gave advice to a girl ",,,To drop dead,,," and they called her crazy.
No advisor should ever do that even if the person is. We had to go to years of training and i had to open up about my years on the streets as a runaway... we didn't lie to the people, even if they were kids, we gave them the hard facts. I even took my groups to dangerous areas, to see where things could go wrong. I grew up on those hard streets...
A person you talk to should be able to relate not just "comprehend", you need to find someone that shares some of your perspectives, but if you are having problems, talk to someone who's gone through what you are dealing with and see if what they have to say can give you some guidance. It sounds as if you are having social or family issues otherwise you wouldn't request someone far from your life.
Thus, check for group meetings outside your local city limits. when I was dealing with professional issues i had to do just that, since although highly successful to others, i felt insecure. and when I found my wife, i spent years getting to where are now.no clinics or hospitals. I found a cool coffeeshop where we all spoke about anything and everything whiteout bias or further discussion after we left the shop. Those are some cool people. But that's here in California. I know there are places like that all over.
And sometimes talking to others is the best therapy. Don't be biased or closed minded to the advise. but be wise. know inside yourself what is really going to help you, and what is just some oddballs strange idea of a sarcastic remark. You kow yourself better then anyone else.
It seems you know what is actually going to help you. You want opinions, not advise. but take advice. Even if you are not religious, you can go to a church and talk to a priest, he should be nonbiased and a true priest doesn't turn a blind eye to those in need. even those not of there faith. when i needed help, you go to where help is offered. details of your situation could've been way more pertanent to giving you a better answer but that's all i can tell you from what little you said.