Ever since my wife got pregnant, she has changed sooooo much! She is like a completely different person!! We used to have all similar interests, but now she is a completely different person with radically different interests. Before she was pregnant she was fiercely vegan, during her pregnancy, she started eating meats, cheeses, and dairies, which I can understand. But now the child is 7 months old and her non-veggie ways show no signs of slowing. If we didn't share a beautiful child together I would divorce her in a heartbeat. But I love our son soooo much and I want him to have his blood parents around him through his growing up. At the same time, I don't want him to learn what love is through his mother's and mine near constant bickering and disagreements. I don't think I have it in me to try to divorce her and claim sole custody of my child because it would break my wife's heart and I could never do that. I do love her but f###!! she drives me nutz!! what do I do? please help!
If your wife's interest have changed, can you learn to love the new interests? She's still the same person beneath her new ideas. If this is all just about veganism and THIS is why you want to divorce her, I would take a greater look into yourself.
You can still be vegan, if that's what you are, and she can still NOT be a vegan. Make a list of all the things you loved about her before your child and after. Take a long look at the list, I bet there are still so many things that are the same. You may have made her post-child list even longer. I bet she's a great mom, and does many things for your child.
Take a good look at her now without putting the memories of her before the baby. Pretend you were just meeting her for the first time. I bet you are still in love with the new her. Give it time. I have a 6.5 month old at home, and although I feel I'm still the same person, my boyfriend says I have changed a great deal. You need to talk to her and let her know how you feel. A woman needs to take care of her body after the child was born, and she may need more proteins now than she did before. I realize that you can get protein from vegan sources, as well, but maybe for the time being, she prefers getting this source from meat and dairy. If changing from vegan to mom has upset you that much, I'm sorry. I wish you all the best of luck.