I've been really patient with him but it has gotten to the point that I cant take such a long time away from him. I love him and he loves me...What should I do????
Is it an option for him to get a different job? If so, does he want to, or does he like what he's doing?
If he's happy with his job, it's not fair to ask him to change it. Instead, find ways to make the most of your time together. Meanwhile, find something to keep yourself busy while he's at work. Get a job yourself, get a hobby, or be a volunteer somewhere.